6 Ideas for Elf on the Shelf Fun!

elf on a shelf ideasEvery year around this time my children excitedly await the arrival of our Elf on the Shelf, Tinker.

Tinker arrived to our house several years ago and is now a family member.

Our Elf is what we call a “thoughtful elf.” She takes our kids likes, wants, and feelings into consideration when she plans her days before the holidays.

For example, one year our daughter was really into the Captain Underpants series. So Tinker, (a.k.a. mom), wrote a letter to our kids how at the North Pole all the elves decorate their trees with the things they love. So she was going to decorate our tree with the things our kids loved. Tinker went ahead and decorated our tree with our kids’ underwear.

Thoughtful as she is, she sometimes takes it too far.

Over the years we have molded our elf so we can be more interactive with her. And most of the time we have everything at home to make our Elf on the Shelf come to life.

Here are some fun and simple ideas for this coming Elf on the Shelf Season:

Wherever You Are Jar

We have what we call the “wherever you are jar.” Each child gets a day with our Elf in the wherever you are jar where they can take her on adventures, like to the grocery store or to grandma’s house. It’s the one day where they can “touch” the elf without really touching her.


You can take a red and black dry erase marker and draw elf hats on framed family photos in the house with you hold holding a sign and the markers that says, “You’ve been elfed!” If you have those silly googly eyes used for crafting, you could even stick those on there to add to the humor.

Elf Spaghetti Night

On spaghetti night my kids make “elf spaghetti” for her so she can enjoy a meal with our family. This was fun and super easy to do with stuff we already had in the house, like noodles, maple syrup, cereal, and Christmas sprinkles!

elf on the shelf

Baby It’s Cold…Inside

There are some days when a simple note and dish rag can did the trick.


Our Elf has been sneaky and taken “elfies” in the middle of the night as well.

Elf on Strike

On those days before the holidays when attitudes got the best of our kids, Tinker went on strike. She refused to come back from the North Pole until they said they were sorry and started to listen.

These are just some examples of what our Elf does. I think that one of the best parts about being a parent is how we create the magic for our kids.

What are some great ideas you’ve done with your elf? Let us know in the comments below!
And looking for more holiday fun? Check out our Ultimate Guide to the Holidays in Fargo!
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Chelsey Winter
Chelsey was born and raised in small-town North Dakota. After finishing up cosmetology school she married her husband Brad, they made Moorhead their home and began raising their children Brynlee (2011) and Joss (2014) there. Chelsey can be found behind the chair at her own salon, Chelsey Danielle Salon or in the stands cheering on her kids at the hockey rink. With each birthday celebration and extracurricular, Chelsey has realized her favorite hobby has been party planning or making projects with her kids. Now she would like to share all her ideas with you!


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