Last fall, my husband and I went on a two-day getaway together.
It was our first extended time away from our youngest child and the longest we’d been apart from our twins in two years.
In the week leading up to our trip, we found ourselves having multiple conversations about canceling it altogether. The thought of being away was daunting, and calling us nervous would be an understatement.
However, after we had returned from our trip, we realized the importance of planning these short getaways.
Here are some ways to make the most of your time.
Getaway Tips
Start Small and Plan Ahead
We knew jumping into a long trip would be overwhelming, so we started with a two-day getaway. It made things feel so much more manageable.
Planning ahead was key. I made sure the kids’ routines were covered, double-checked our childcare plans, and talked through everything with my husband until we both felt comfortable.
It helped to have everything squared away before we left, so we could actually relax once we got there.
Communicate Your Needs and Expectations
Before we left, my husband and I had a conversation about what we wanted out of the trip. For us, it was mostly about slowing down and reconnecting without distractions — no kids, no work, just us.
It sounds simple, but being intentional about our time made all the difference.
We ended up having some of the best conversations we’ve had in ages and really enjoyed the time together.
Prioritize Connection Over Perfection
At first, I wanted to plan every detail (I am a planner at heart), but I quickly realized that trying to create the “perfect” getaway was missing the point.
The best parts of the trip were the unplanned moments: lingering over breakfast, going for a walk with no particular destination, laughing over great conversations.
Letting go of the pressure to make everything perfect was honestly a relief.
Leave the Guilt Behind
I’ll admit, I felt guilty right up until we left and even after. I kept running through all the “what-ifs” in my head.
But once we were on the road, I started to relax.
And by the time we got back, I realized just how much I needed that break, not just as a mom, but as a wife.
Investing in our marriage felt good. And coming home refreshed made me a better mom, too.
Reflect and Plan for the Future
On our drive home, we talked about how nice it was to just be us again. We agreed that we need to do this more often, even if it’s just a night away or a date night closer to home.
Making these getaways a priority feels less like a luxury and more like something our relationship truly needs.
Taking time away together can be hard especially with young kids and busy schedules. But it’s so worth it. We came back feeling more connected and ready to tackle the chaos of life together.
If you’ve been putting off a getaway, this is your sign to make it happen.
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